The kids and I (minus Kent) were able to go away for a few days last week. We went to my in-law's cabin up north. It was so fun. We took my sister Katie and her daughter Melia, and the DeTemples (minus Derek) with us. We drove up, stopped in Payson for lunch and groceries, and continued to the cabin. The moms got to relax while the kids went on hike after hike. Some of them were convinced that they saw coyotes and bears. (They didn't, but it was fun to play along with them for a while.) Drew told us about this 4 legged creature that was really small and would crawl up your leg and cut you, and then give you a Band-Aid to fix the cut. He didn't specify if it was an insect or an animal, but he was sure intent on telling us, and tried to keep everyone inside so this creature couldn't hurt any of us. It was hilarious.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Spring Break Cabin Trip
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Monday, March 16, 2009
Spring Cleaning- Oh, I mean, Spring Break is Upon Us Again!
As for my closet and bathroom, though, I redo those things on my own. (Kent's office is on my list, but with the recent acquisition of our new bed our old king size bed got moved to his office, and I can't do anything now!) It always looks worse before it looks better. Currently my bathroom is a maze through which I have to carefully maneuver. Everything is out from under Kent's sink, tons of stuff is out from our closet, and after my lunch break I have to get everything out from under my sink. I hope no one comes in while I'm working!
I have found a lot of Kent's clothes that lost their hangers somehow. I also found various computer and electronic cables and components. I have vacuumed shelves and floors, and decided that since we no longer have a cassette player that I can throw away the cassette tapes. I reorganized all the towels and sheets again. It seems that I am forever doing those things only to have them undone within a matter of days. It's a good thing I enjoy organizing! Did I mention I would love to be a professional organizer? Dream job! I should take a picture of what it looks like, but I'm afraid what people would think.
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Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Natalie's "Girl" Play Date
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Finishing the front yard!
I started working on the bougainvillea yesterday. I love how they look, but they are so messy! I last this plant down to about 4' tall and 4' wide. Not too big, right? I'm the only one who will go near it because of the thorns. (My nail polish really is that bright.)(For those of you unfamiliar with them each branch is covered in thorns. They cut deep, and are more painful than paper cuts.) The worst thing about them is they drop leaves like crazy. They end up under the plant, and all sorts of other yuck collects there too. Last time I cleaned it out I found the rotted remains of 2 dead birds. Gross! I think I found another one yesterday, but I didn't want to look at the feathery mass again. I decided I've had enough of this plant so instead of trimming it back again I started hacking away. Maybe hacking is too strong a word. I had to be careful of those thorns. (This is after working on it yesterday. That green bush in the bottom right corner is a weed that was almost completely covered by the bougainvillea, and then some of the clippings.)
Today I spent another hour cutting it back. I still have more work to do so that it will be small enough that I can poison it and have Kent rip it out. I'm putting a nice, non-messy plant there in its place. (Tina, I might need your help again!) Unless I don't mind getting thorns in my arms, legs and torso I can't get those top branches.
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Tuesday, March 10, 2009
My second day of Kent's trip
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Monday, March 09, 2009
Friendship Dinner and cleaning
We had our Friendship Dinner on Saturday night. I'm so glad that we did it. I've heard from so many people that they had such a good time getting to know other ward members better. I think it's especially good for people who are in auxiliaries that don't get to attend RS or Priesthood on a regular basis.
Kristen and I set up at her house. Well, Kristen already had most of it done when I arrived so I put out my dishes and we tried to figure out if we had forgotten anything. Desserts had been delivered to her house throughout the day, and I brought 2 of my own when I went. I made chocolate chip cookies for those who wanted something simple, and Lemon Poppy Seed Cake for those who wanted something a little springy. We were just going to order pizza for ourselves and our husbands, but Mindy Judd stopped by with her dessert and invited us to join them. To say our husbands were thrilled would be an understatement. Steak fajitas vs. pizza? Not a tough decision for them.
Sunday I was supposed to meet with the bishopric before church so I could get a blessing. I was up an hour before my family, curled Natalie's hair with the flat iron (which she promptly washed out after church) and got everyone ready. Then I realized I hadn't gotten myself ready. I totally missed my appointment.
After church our home teachers came over. We have Joel Ackley and Brian Washburn. They are great home teachers. I don't think they've ever missed a month, and always remember everyone's birthdays. This makes them favorites in the eyes of our children. Bro. Washburn calls to check in on us, and is willing to help us in any way we need. We're so grateful for them.
Later that evening I got a call from Julie Daniels to come to her house. Her mother, Joann, was there, and taught me how to finish crocheting the baby blanket I've been working on. I was so excited. I've been so busy that I haven't even finished an entire side, but what I do have done looks great. I'm so lucky that I had such a great teacher!
Kent was packing while I was at Julie's, and was ready for bed when I got home. He had to leave this morning at 4 a.m. to make his flight. In his absence the kids take turns sleeping on his side of the bed. I had to kick Trevor out in the middle of the night last time because he's a mover and kept hitting me with his arms and legs. I'm not sure if I dare let him sleep there again. I have a hard enough time sleeping as it is. Justin decided that he was too old to sleep there, but he wants to have the younger kids sleep in his room on the floor. We'll see about that. They do it all the time anyway so I don't know that I can stop it.
And as it always is while Kent's gone I got a ton of stuff done today. I cleaned out the bins by the front door, cleaned out the refrigerator and did all the laundry. Tonight I cleaned out the freezer. One of the kids (apparently named "Not Me" or "I Don't Know") left the freezer partially open, and the raspberries, strawberries and all the ice cream (everything in the door) melted. I could barely open the door, and had a hard time getting the bags separated. I thought I was getting frostbite because my fingers were so cold. After I cleaned that up with Justin's help I mopped. I had to mop under and around the entire laundry room 3 times before I got it all cleaned up.
I have grand plans for the rest of the week. I should have taken before and after pictures of the freezer earlier because it was such a dramatic difference, but I didn't. Maybe some of my other projects will be good for before and after pictures. Even if they aren't blog-worthy, they should help me feel good about the difference I'm making in my own home! Have a great week!
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Saturday, March 07, 2009
Back, Blanket and Bed
My back has been hurting terribly since Tuesday night. What a drag. Thursday night was especially bad. I hurt so bad I didn't fall asleep until 7 a.m. Friday morning. I woke up at 9:30 so I could be ready when Drew got dropped off from school. So yesterday was a hard day. But we our new Sleep Number bed arrived! It was nice because they said they'd be there between 12 and 4, they were here shortly after 12, and set it up within 20 minutes. Great! Also talked to my next door neighbor. He has a bad back so he showed me how to use their hot tub and told me to use it whenever I want/need to. So last night I did. It was so relaxing. I slept great last night. I think it was a combination of the new bed, the hot tub, the medication and the ice packs.
Thursday evening was fun before I bedtime I went to our enrichment leader's house again to learn to crochet a baby blanket... well, more specifically to crochet around baby felt. It looks like lace. It's not especially difficult, but the effect looks like it should be. I'll post pictures when I'm done. I am really excited to see how it turns out. I'm excited so far!
I was so overtired and sore I couldn't wake up to go to the Pinewood Derby this morning. Whoops! I am a new den leader, and I was supposed to be there. I chose to put my health first, and I felt guilty doing it, but I did it anyway. I do feel a lot better so I think it was the right decision. Trevor had a great time. Kent said that Trevor won all his races. Trevor was happy. Kent took pictures, so I'll post those when he gives me the camera.
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Wednesday, March 04, 2009
Reality check and random musings
Kent is leaving us for a week to go to training for work. I am really grateful he has a job... especially after his office was hit with massive layoffs on Monday. He said that some of the people that lost their jobs came as big surprises, and others weren't such a surprise. But is has definitely made for a stressful week. His boss announced that after these layoffs there will be another round in May, and that everyone who stays will be taking a significant pay cut. I hope that Kent isn't among those who lose their jobs, but I am not looking forward to a pay cut either. He's very well trained, and he got this job because a headhunter called him. I still don't like the trips, though. And although I'm not a fan of all the training I am grateful that he has it because it makes him that much more valuable to his company... or to other companies should the need arise. (It's the same systems that they use on 24- high tech geek speak.) He personally scheduled training for the week of spring break, so now the trip we had planned is either not going to happen or I'll have to do it myself. On the one hand we had promised the kids that we'd go on a trip because we took away the Fall Break trip. It would be a lot of fun, it would probably help me alleviate some stress, and I know the kids would love it. On the other hand, do we want to do a family trip without the entire family? Do I want to be the one to drive us everywhere? Would I/we feel guilty if we left Kent behind while he did his training? We wouldn't see much of him anyway because training days are long days. I guess I'll have to think about it and pray about it, then think some more to see what to do.
While Kent is gone next week I have scouts for Justin and Trevor, plus my den will have a meeting too. I may or may not be able to attend the PTO meeting at school. I'm supposed to go to an enrichment meeting, but it's the same day as my next SI joint injection, so I'm not sure if I'll feel up to going. (Another thing I'll have to consider for the trip too.) We have 3 doctor's appointments scheduled for next week, plus 2 eye exams. And these are just the things that we have to do. There are several other things that we'll need to do so it's going to be busy as usual!
I have a confession to make. I love giving service to my friends, neighbors and family. It makes me feel so peaceful when I am able to help someone, even if it's just something special. HOWEVER, I have the hardest time accepting and asking for help for myself. If you need help I'm your gal. If I can help I will. If I can't I will try to help out the next time.
For instance, my mother-in-law, Julie, is helping me when I get my injection next week because Kent will be out of town. I know that I'll need help that day. But we can't bring Drew to the hospital with us because there is no way he'll last the 2+ hours without driving everyone in the waiting room crazy. And because of the time I have to check in we have to leave the house by 7:40. SO I had to call a friend to watch Natalie for a few minutes then take her to school, and see if she could watch also Drew while we're gone.
I have some friends that I feel like I ask for help all the time. These are my close friends that I've known for years. But I feel guilty for calling friends to ask them to watch my kids for me. I try not to do it unless I have no alternative, but I don't want them to resent me or my kids because I ask for help. Mind you, I wouldn't feel that way if I was helping them out, but I feel like they might feel that way about me.
I sucked up my pride and asked a friend to help out, and she was totally willing to do it. (But I still feel guilty for asking.) I know that Drew will have fun because he'll be playing with a friend. He would not enjoy sitting in the waiting room with CNN on, no kids magazines or toys, and where he would have to keep the noise level down. So this will be a good thing for him. And I will get over my guilt. And my MIL is staying the day so I can sleep off the medicine they'll use to sedate me, and she's making dinner before she leaves. (Including her homemade rolls. To. Die. For. Y-U-M-M-Y!) I bought her a 2 liter of Dr. Pepper, and will make a yummy treat for while she's here.
BTW, did I mention I hate shots? I do. Not fun at all, unless you like the feeling that someone is sticking a long nail into your hip. It's not my favorite feeling, but if it works it will be worth it. If it doesn't work... well, at least I tried. Hopefully it doesn't make it worse. It shouldn't.
Anyway, I have been learning to crochet. Our enrichment leader, Julie Daniels, and her mom are our teachers. We had a blast last time. I actually made a hot pad, and I'm making a wash rag now. I don't know that I will ever use them because they're pretty, and I did light colors... I know, I know, but I didn't know that's what we were making so I just bought pretty yarn. Tomorrow night is our next class. We're going to learn to crochet borders (look like lace) for baby blankets. I got enough fabric to make 5 blankets. Wouldn't it be awesome to learn this craft and to be able to get good enough that you could make gifts for people? I am totally excited to learn.
All righty. I've got to work some more on my, I mean Justin's, social studies homework. He got it yesterday, but didn't do much until tonight. His study habits have taken a nosedive recently, so it has meant many late nights for me helping him to finish his work. We've talked about it extensively, and instituted punishments, but nothing seems to work right now. The tween stage is killing me! Over and out!
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Sunday, March 01, 2009
Silly pictures at home
Last night after the kids were all home, friends had gone home for the night, and we were watching Nacho Libre I snapped a few pictures of everyone. Except Drew. He would not cooperate with me until I agreed to let him take a picture of me. My picture wasn't allowed to be one where I smiled sweetly at the camera. Oh no. I had to make a face before it was good enough. I really don't normally have pictures like the one on here.
I improvised a little as you can see. Natalie managed to get in my picture too.
Kent was not inside while we were taking pictures. I'm not sure where he disappeared to. He may have been giving Smokey a hair cut still. He really needed it. Somehow he got a huge dingle berry earlier in the week and it's been growing and growing. Now it's gone so he can come inside again!
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Video of Natalie's performance
It's short. Since Kent and the boys missed it I wanted to record it so they could watch it. I wanted more still photos than I wanted video so this is what I got. Natalie is in the second row.
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Saturday, February 28, 2009
Natalie's Dance Competition
All the Divas before their performance. (Milea is in a sling because she broke her arm yesterday.)
The Divas performing "Dreamgirls."
The girls tapping. They did such a good job, and looked so cute!
I forgot to add... before we left to drive out to the HS where it was held I had to get my girl ready. Everyone had to match so I put brown eye shadow, black eyeliner, black mascara, blush and red lipstick on Natalie for the performance. No biggie... we even added glitter. (I had to go buy red lipstick this morning. Red lipstick and I do not look well together.) We also had to do her hair a certain way. (She got her barrette and jewelry when we got there). We did her hair and make-up, and as soon as we came downstairs I overheard Trevor say, "Natalie, no offense, but you're freaking me out like that." I came around the corner and asked him why, and he said, "Her eyes- looking like that... I just don't think she should do that. Ir's freaking me out. She doesn't even look like her."
Then a little while after we came home Natalie had her friend Devon come over. He's such a nice boy, and they were playing the Wii together. Eventually Drew and our next door neighbor Gaven came in to watch them play. Kent popped his head in and asked Drew who his friend was. He was talking about Natalie! Every time I think about it I laugh. She didn't look that different. I thought it was so funny!
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Friday, February 27, 2009
Counting my blessings
- Having a husband who will take care of me when I'm not feeling well... which, with my bad back, is more often than I would care to admit- or experience personally.
- Having Justin as an oldest child. He is so responsible. Even when he gets in trouble (because let's face it, what tween doesn't get in trouble occasionally), he's usually pretty quick to calm down, apologize and try to make things right.
- Having Trevor as my second child. This child will be the death of me, but he's so insightful, sensitive and kind-hearted... most of the time! He can approach anyone, introduce himself and talk to them. There was a time when I didn't think this would happen. (Those of you who knew him before he was 4 can testify to this.)
- Having Natalie for a daughter. She loves to wrestle with the boys, but still LOVES to do the girly-girl thing with Mom. It warms my heart. I don't know what I'd do if she was a total tomboy.
- Having Drew for my baby. He's the cutest thing. I just love that kid. He is so funny. He is a total momma's boy, which is just fine with me! (So is Trevor... and Natalie... and Justin too... I hope none of them outgrow it!)
- Having been born in America, and having the freedom to worship how I deem fit.
- Having the ability to go to church, talk about my beliefs and knowing that I have the true gospel in my life.
- Having trials. The scriptures say that the Lord won't give you more than you can handle. I sometimes think He trusts me a little (or a lot) too much. But then I remember the scriptures and the promises that are in them, and then I close my eyes and say a prayer. Then I seem to find the strength to deal with my trials... whether it be inner strength, help from a friend or a loved one, help from a stranger... finding the answers is always so much easier when I know that I have the Lord on my side.
- Having blessings. Sometimes my trials can turn into blessings quicker than I could have ever imagined. I think that the Lord gives us trials to strengthen us for other things that will happen in our lives. Sometimes He just gives us blessings because he loves us, and we don't need to overcome a trial to earn it.
- Having talents. I have been able to enjoy the talents of so many friends and family members. I am constantly amazed that some people don't realize how talented they are. Some people have the talent of being a good friend, and sometimes that's more than any other talent. I love being able to listen to music that others perform, read stories they have written, see things they have created, and especially just being able to learn from them.
- Having a supply of chocolate. Okay, seriously. There are times when a good piece of chocolate hits the spot and can brighten my day. There. I said it. I KNOW I'm not the only one who feels this way...
- Having a good pillow. Kent surprised me and filed our taxes several weeks ago, and we already got our tax refund. Yay! Then he surprised me again by taking me to the bedroom store to order a sleep number bed. While we were there I got a new pillow and a new body pillow. I don't have the bed yet, but those pillows are already helping me sleep better. I am thrilled beyond belief that these things help.
I'm sure there are many things I'm forgetting to add... I'll try to add more later. But while I had the time I wanted to express my gratitude for these blessings.
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Thursday, February 26, 2009
Why me? Part 2
UPDATE: Shortly after I typed the first "Why Me?" post I got a call from the school nurse. Justin was in the nurse's office with a bad stomachache. She gave him some Tums because he didn't want to come home. (He wanted to see my sister Michelle and her son Varick because they're leaving in the morning. I tried explaining to him that regardless of whether he went to school or not he couldn't see them if he was sick.) Anyway, the nurse gave him the Tums, but then 25 minutes later she called again and said I needed to come pick him up. He came home, and 2 minutes later he was sick too. 3 of the 4 kids puking and pooping their guts out. Ew, yuck.
I have been sanitizing everything (including me and Drew) throughout the day. I cannot have this go through my house again, and if Kent gets it I think I'll have to leave... that will push me over the edge. He's the worst sick person I've ever met. If I get sick no one helps me the way I help them, know what I mean, moms? I just hope the worst part is over. Drew had a fever after he stopped being sick. Trevor and Natalie have moved on to that part, but Justin is still so sick.
Oh, man.
At least I got to leave for a lot of the day. Kent came home to work from home so I could go visit Michelle, Varick and my mom for lunch. Then Kent and I got to go to Les Miserables with his mom and step-dad tonight. It was a terrific production, and I was glad to be away from the germs. BTW, I sanitized again when I came home.
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Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Why me?
Everything was going so smoothly. Michelle and baby Varick came to AZ to visit before she has to go back to work. Yay! We had dinner and dessert here on Sunday night. The kids got to play together and had a ton of fun. Everyone had a good time. When everyone went home we put the kids to bed. A while later Kent went to bed. Just as I was getting ready to go to bed Justin called me from upstairs. Drew had thrown up everywhere. He had a piece of chocolate cake for dessert. So gross. I was totally gagging as I cleaned it up. I woke Kent up to take care of Drew because he was covered head to toe in that mess... so, so gross.
When everything was cleaned up I went downstairs and threw all the dirty clothes, pillows and blankets into the washing machine. I double washed everything just to make sure it was really clean. Drew came downstairs because his tummy still hurt, and we were up until 2 so his stomach could calm down. The next day he spent most of his time in the bathroom or on the couch/floor like a slug. No more vomiting, though.
Yesterday he slept until 12:44. I had to wake him up three times before he finally got out of bed. He so did not want to get out of bed. He finally ate some food, and then he was totally fine. The kids came home from school, then we went to my mom's house to visit Michelle, Varick, my mom and Melia (my niece). Things went well when we got home... with the exception of Trevor being grumpy. (Which happens more often than I'd care to admit.)
Fast forward to this morning. I go to Natalie's room to get her up, but she's not there. Sometimes she moves to Justin's room and sleeps on the floor, but she wasn't there. Weird...
I go downstairs because the lights are all on, and I hear the kids talking. Both Trevor and Natalie said they'd been up for several hours because they were throwing up. They're both laying on the floor trying not to cry every time they get sick.
So our plans have changed for today. It's an early release day, so we were going to go do something fun, spend some time with Michelle. This afternoon I'm supposed to have scouts. Tonight Kent and I are supposed to go to Les Miserables. Now I suppose all of that's in jeopardy. I canceled scouts because it seemed like the right thing to do. The other things- we'll have to see what the rest of the day holds. Natalie is whimpering on the floor, and Trevor is zonked out on the couch. I think I might go back to bed and start my day over again.
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Monday, February 23, 2009
More pictures from Sunday night
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